Ocd personality and dating

25-May-2016 17:45 by 2 Comments

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There are times [when our relationship] has plummeted to the depths whereby we were both ready to give up.” Between the periods of elation and bliss come what Paddy calls “bad phases.” “Sometimes among the arguments, the fits of anger and rage, the distrust, the paranoia, the mood swings, it seems like my girlfriend is a completely different person.” In the worst of times, he likens dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder to having a relationship with someone who has dementia.

Terms like psycho, narcissist, and OCD get thrown around.

Language such as you are quoting in your letter (e.g., "your flaws") is ‘me’ language conveying a sense of me against you.

When he starts talking about compromise and how are we going to handle the problem (where "we" doesn’t mean "you"), then you’ll know he’s made progress.

For some reason they have developed the impression that they could easily lose the love of their parents if they did not do things "right." In an alternate variant of obsessive compulsive personality (which is equally, if not even more prevalent), some people develop the idea that they must always be "good" to earn parental love.

Through some mixture of genetic sensitivities and parental authority, the obsessive compulsive learns to do it "right" or to "be good" or face significant disapproval.

Nine months into their relationship, he and his girlfriend have moved past the early days of butterflies and uncertainty and have begun developing a true bond, the kind that begins to take hold when you become familiar with each other, learn each other’s rhythms, and begin to truly see each other.

“There have been times where I have been so infatuated and so blissfully happy that I felt like running away with her,” he says.While I cannot speak to the validity of your diagnosis, it seems safe to say that your husband is having a difficult time adjusting to being married, and in large part the reason for this difficulty seems to be related to his relative rigidity in adapting to the changed circumstances.Marriage requires an identity adjustment from ‘me’ to ‘we’, and it seems like he is having great difficulty entering ‘we’ territory.In an attempt to shed light on what it is like to be with a person who is disordered—or as the layman would call it “crazy”—I’m offering a list of the two types of mental health afflictions and what it is like to be in relationship with someone who is suffering from them.This list does not infer that one party is the “healthy” party and the other is disordered.In fact, there’s a little crazy inside of all of us.

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